Earlier in the week Tyler had suggested we go to Tucanos Thursday because I was going to be starting a new diet the next day (the feast before the famine I suppose). I thought, "Tucanos? On our 6 month anniversary? I wonder if he'll propose?!" He became sick and even Thursday morning was saying he wasn't sure if he was up for going out. I'm still not sure if this was an evil plot to throw me off. If it was... it worked.
He picked me up for dinner and I asked, "Do you know what today is?" "Thursday?" He said. Yep, definitely NOT proposing. Then as he went downstairs to wait for me to be ready he mumbled, "Something about a 6." OK, MAYBE proposing...
We went to Tucanos for dinner. He didn't wear a jacket or sweatshirt or anything that had pockets to put the ring in. Definitely not proposing.... I tried to enjoy dinner, despite my slight disappointment that I didn't think it was going to happen. During dinner I started fishing for more information, "So, what are we going to do next??" Ty suggested we go for a drive. Possibly proposing... I asked him where we were going and he said Provo. Tyler and I like to go for Sunday drives and look at houses. We discuss features we like and where we'd like to live when Tyler finishes his PhD. Tyler said there was a neighborhood in Provo we hadn't looked at. Yep... NOT proposing.
We drove down to Center Street and headed west. Tyler would ask me about a house here and there. I'd try to disguise my disappointment and enthusiastically describe pillars and layouts. It was 8:05 and we needed to be home at 8:30 to get Coleman. I told Ty this but he kept driving. We passed the airport. "Tyler! We need to go back. We can't make it from west Provo to the house in 15 minutes," I told him. He said we wouldn't be much longer, I made arrangements for Coleman to go to a neighbor's in case we weren't back. He kept driving further and further west. He's up to something. Maybe he actually is proposing.... or planning to dump my body somewhere.
Eventually we ended up at Utah State Park at Utah Lake. Ty pulled out his wallet and paid $9 to park for 5 minutes. YEP! He's proposing! I started scanning my surroundings. I searched the car, the surrounding area and even tried to see if I recognized any of our fellow patrons. Nothing. OK, maybe not... Tyler opened my door, took me by the hand brought me to the water.


I told him how the water made me miss home. He smiled and said, "I thought we'd come here because you said you've never been to Utah Lake." I smiled, trying to acknowledge his thoughtfulness and disguise my disappointment. I hugged him. He really is so sweet and thoughtful. He had planned a very nice date and I was too preoccupied to appreciate it.
Then he pulled a small box from his pocket, smiled at me and simply said, "So... Will you marry me?"
TRICKY BOY! IT WAS IN HIS POCKET THE WHOLE TIME AND I DIDN"T NOTICE!
TRICKY BOY! IT WAS IN HIS POCKET THE WHOLE TIME AND I DIDN"T NOTICE!
I wrapped my arms around him, kissed him, and (after what probably felt like an eternity)...
I said, "YES!"
It was cold and windy at the lake so we had to get back in the car.
The RING
I love Tyler so much. I've never experienced anything like this. He is the greatest. He is sweet, caring, kind, attentive, funny, and so good to me. He's my best friend. I'm so grateful he chose me and I couldn't ask for anyone better. He's far from perfect but he is everything I need. I'm so excited to be his wife.